Nobody's telling her to change everything. Nobody but her. She's more than a bad temper--or she could be if she let herself.

"I know it's not easy, but it's easier if you don't try to do it alone." And she isn't alone. That should be obvious. The tired look isn't great, but they're practically already here, and she needs to eat. Toast and chocolate is not going to get her far. "We can sit down inside and relax a bit," she offers quietly.